Hey FU!!

It's been a while! Some of you may remember me as BBWPryncess81, I had a profile on here for YEARS...but had to take a really long and much needed break from this place. Fubar can be fun and you meet some really great people...but there are a handful of people that can truly suck the life and fun out of things. With all that said... here is a little bit about me!!

I am still not 100% sold on this being the right way to put myself out in the dating world again... But what is life without chances?

I am a divorced *SINGLE* mommy of two (9 yr boy/11 yr girl) living in Novi. I am best described as passionate, stubborn, honest to a fault, a communicator, incredibly outgoing, my heart is worn on my sleeve and I always try to find the good in just about everything and everyone around me. It's a good and bad quality. I am constantly rewriting my story because I feel like life is always open for interpretation. I've lived through a lot...I've experienced not necessarily more than the average person... But I am really in tune to my surroundings. I have learned so much about myself and my surroundings this past year and I feel even more confident in myself and what I have to offer to the right person... Key words being..."the right person". Music and live theater is a strong passion of mine. Being on stage acting/singing/dancing... it's such a natural high for me and where I am truly most comfortable. I enjoy traveling, camping, sunning, boating, shopping, writing, reading, really anything outdoors. The most important part of this section. I am a FULL time mommy. My children are my world and will never ever be compromised. I am not looking for a daddy...my kiddos have their daddy... Unfortunately, he just lives in another country far away. There is no drama between their dad and I, simply because I won't allow it. My children are far from the equation today... But eventually, they will be a part of the package deal. So, if children are not something you can handle, I wish you the best of luck in your search. Both of my littles are SUPER active in sports. My son plays tackle football in the fall and is part of an intensive travel baseball team through out the rest of the year, with all the tournaments and games in the spring and summer. My daughter is an awesome dancer, side line football cheerleader and soccer player! Needless to say, we are an incredibly active family, whether we are onstage or on a field somewhere.

Leading a healthy and active lifestyle, mind, body and spirit is so important to me. I am constantly working on myself. Reading and writing...learning...experimenting. Back in November of 2015, I embarked on a physical transformation journey. It was a scary jump but one I am so thankful for. I decided it was time to love me enough to take care of my body physically. I am currently down 140 lbs and working every single day to meet my goals by the end of 2016. The transformation has been unbelievable to watch and experience...such an incredible journey I would never change.

I get this question a lot...so let me just put this out here. Yes, I am single. No, I'm not on here with ANY expectations. Am I open to meeting the man of my dreams? Who wouldn't be?! So, what am I looking for? I dream of a grounded (sane) man, with a zest for life! Someone whom appreciates the simple things, and never really gets too comfortable with their own surroundings. He has to have dreams and aspirations and strives to go above and beyond what his own expectations are. Someone spontaneous, active, motivated, outgoing, honest, a COMMUNICATOR, passionate and yes, a little romantic would be a dream! Being patient, caring, loyal and humble should be second nature. A non-smoker is a must. Being gainfully employed with your head on your shoulders is a MUST. I have a good job, my life is in order and I truly have a lot to offer the right person... I have learned through heartache and trial and error...that this just cannot be compromised. The fundamentals are really simple. Be honest. Be real. Be open minded. And most importantly, be YOU!

So, I think that sums up the basics and then some! Happy Fu'ing, friends.