I'm a transsexual. Sorry, still pre-op, so sex is out *shrug* -- I have a good life, tho; I'm actually one of the lucky ones. I'm employed (decent job, even), have a place to live, own my car (POS, but it's mine), have two children that love me; (even got custody of one)...the rest of the world can go f**k themselves, lol. My family accepts me, I accept me, my children accept me, hell even my ex accepts me.

My transition is about 11 months in, so i have size A breasts...they'll increase since i just got an increase in my hormone prescription (quit smoking!!! yay!!!) My goal is to raise $10k this year to make the trip to Taiwan (the best in the world according to sources). I hate my voice, tho, but need another $3k to fix that. *sigh* decisions, decisions (no, i'm tone deaf and don't have the discipline to keep my voice high enough to pass).

Listen, for those of you that don't know what "transexual" means, it means I'm transitioning from male to female. Realistically, it will be two years from January 2012 before I am "completed". I know for some of you, this is uncomfortable. Please do not hit on me only to discover the meaning later and then tell me "if you dont have a pussy...." and "i dont do guys" and "i don't do dicks" -- i have enough problems/issues without having to defend myself and have to explain I'm NOT a guy. I don't want to "do" anyone.

I'm not out for a thrill and this isn't a game to me. This is very real. I would rather be celibate until people ARE comfortable with me. I KNOW I pass only 85% of the time in real life; I KNOW what people say when I'm out of earshot (sometimes in). I KNOW what I dont have, but I i'm trying to fix that. If I'm pretty now,,,after? I just don't need to hear you hate me.

If you do perchance find out later (like after you send me your cell number to text you), just politely tell me you changed your mind. I will cry either way, but at least the sting will be less. I can assure you I dont share information if you send it too early. I respect you, please respect me.