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| | Deadbeat Dad |
| created @ 03/10/2013 05:58 pm |
| mum expired. [EVERYONE] |
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Ok, so this is a serious Mumm... and one I really need some help on. I left my cheating, asshole husband just over a year ago. Since then he hasn't paid me one cent of child support. He only has to pay me a measly $75 a week to help support his two gorgeous boys but seems that is too much. My boys absolutely adore him (they are aged 10 and 6)and I have always been careful not to say anything bad about him in front of them. They talk with him a few times a week on the phone and I have always facilitated that, if the boys want to ring him, I never stop them. Since we have separated he has gone and moved to another state with his floosy (and her three kids, whom I am sure he is helping to support), so he only sees his kids once every few months now.
My question is this, do I keep playing good guy and not saying anything nasty about him in front of kids? Or do I let the kids know that when I have to say no to something they want to do or want, because we don't have much money, its because Daddy aint such an angel and isn't helping out at all? Just seems unfair that I have to be the bad guy and always say no to stuff because Daddy is a deadbeat Dad and owes Mummy over $3,000, while Daddy continues to do absolutely no wrong in the kids eyes... |
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