Ok this is not a pity party on me i just want comments, I need to know how other people feel about getting used by there sisters or brothers you know the drill. Here is a little bit about my story. I have a sister who will be 18, in June. She is rebeling against her father. Which is understandable. She called me all crying and that, said she needed a place to go. So I gave her a roof over her head, food, and what ever else she needed. The next day she went to get her stuff from her dad's and now she ended up with her 18 year old boyfriend. I feel she used me to get out of her previous house. I guess my question is, if she comes crying back what should I do? Should I say you wanted to be and adult and move out of your dads, so act like one....Or just welcome her back because everyone makes mistakes...