Ever notice that ALL men and women seek the SAME things in these ads? We all want trust, respect, chemistry, love, passion, compassion, a good heart and soul, and maybe most of all, A GREAT LOVER with a borderline wild naughty side and open-mind that makes us forever YEARN for more without becoming bored and tired of the same person all the time. Then, why are these things so hard to find? Simple! Not many of us have all these qualities in one package and no one wants to settle with the thoughts that better will come along eventually. The answer is also very simple. The minds have to click and COMPROMISE. Time waits for no man (or woman). The person I would love to meet would be open-minded like myself into trying new things, would enjoy music, likes to keep the door to communciation OPEN at all times, and one who does not believe in playing games. Would like to find someone with a free spirit. Would like to find someone with lots of heart and soul...maybe a little on the shy side. I am considered somewhat an extrovert, so perhaps, the opposite personality might be the best??? Someone who loves to let their hair down and hang on the wild side of life once in awhile perhaps. I seek a woman with an open mind about everything..Life, love, sex, problems and solutions who doesnt run away from problems, but instead, turns and faces them head-on with intelligence. I want a woman who is a passionate lover, who understands the importance of sex in a relationship. I want a woman who is a GREAT communicator AS WELL AS listener. I want a lover and companion who will bond her heart, soul, mind and body with mine and give till she cant give, for she will receive the same back from me. Ive learned to deal with life and others with lots of patience and most of all, an open-mind these days. Life is just too short to play games with one another, whether it be friends, acquaintances or lovers. All that is required for any relationship is honesty, openess and heart-to-heart communication that is GENUINE between 2 people. If you just want a 1-nighter, then SAY SO and SPEAK UP! If there is to be more then state that as well! You have to live life to its fullest each and every day like it is YOUR LAST day on life, because you just never know...it may just be! People need to bond the heart, mind and soul of each other and live closer ....kinda like they use to live back in the 30s, 40s, 50s, and maybe even the 60s. In the 70s, 80s and on up, WE as a people lost something there...and havent got it back yet.