Okay please I do not want anybody to get confused by what I am about to say. Believe me a lot of people have trouble understanding So please pay attention. It has been 3 going on 4 months since I have had sex and quite frankly it is starting to piss me off. I mean it seems like the very second you mention sex to a woman and she thinks you want a serious relationship....FUNK DAT. I am here for one reason and one reason only. I need to find a woman who will be my friend and is also willing to add benefits to that friendship. This is the part people get confused about. It goes like this, "Hey I wanna be your friend", "Hey that's cool I'll be your friend", "That is awesome, by the way would you be interested in some mindless sex and us still just be friends, or just dating, or something just nothing serious", ".........." In case you are wondering that is part I am waiting for a reasonable answer on. If you cannot understand any of this then move along.