I am a full time post grad student, involves large techie things, and a minor in economics. I also work part time as a personal assistant to my benefactor who is self employed in the entertainment industry. I prefer drug free environments, but I know how to stimulate the endorphins of my brain naturally, and those of closer friends :) Otherwise, my side line is smuggling jelly beans and oreos to monkeys in laboratories (aol rooms? LOL), and I giggle madly while releasing the elephants at the zoo (it was an accident while helping a friend with her zoo chores :) I hug trees, and I NEVER wear fur, but futures trading in dog skins is always tempting :) There may be a message in that for those who are not gentlemen. Ok now, the fun part :) Sexuality, whether it be a low, medium, or high level in a person, is a part of being a whole person. I do enjoy being a whole person :) So here's a little detail following. I like males of "all ages," except maybe for those in their 20s, for reasons of my own. I am not prejudiced in any way, except against jerks, and the silly antics of those who pretend to be, or are wannabe gangstas, which I believe is very immature. I am also mildly bi you could say, which only means I don't like bossy lady types. It usually means in company with a male. I do enjoy FMF, and sometimes MFM, and sometimes... I dunno, I enjoy just rolling with the flow sometimes :) I am very partial to couples :) I enjoy swinging when the situation is right, and I have an older male benefactor friend who can be there with me at times. I like to visit certain underground clubs, especially on saturday nights, and I admit I enjoy meeting cute couples, one couple at a time, from one dark booth the next. I love to dance, and if a couple knows how to approach me in the right way... new friendships can be nice :) I am open minded to a lot of things, and I believe in the credo that says live and let live, but I have my own limitations and things I may not be interested in... such as the dysfunctional personalities who would control another to the point of silly dom type antics that I believe reflect the insecurities of those who wish to control others. I am not interested in S&M or bondage of any kind, or to any degree. Don't bother me with that. This Lost Cherry thing is an experiment for me. After being on aol since forever, I am just curious to see what else is out here. I think the world can be a very nice place if we do it right :) I wish luck and love to everyone, and all the things that make anyone happy. My name is.... Debbie :) P.S. One of my favorite quotes: "Cowardice asks the question, 'Is it safe?' Expediency asks the question, 'Is it politic?' But conscience asks the question, 'Is it right?' And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but because conscience tells one it is right." (Martin Luther King) We must remove the fascist criminals in the white house, and their supporters, as soon as possible. You may pursue your own patriotism at www.impeachpac.com