about me...so im a mom. first and foremost. these kids mean the world to me and most days their all ive got. i have a new found appreciation for things in my life right now. due to some unfortunate circumstances that have changed my life, i have changed a bit as well. i tend to be very closed and hardened in relationships. i now am just the opposite i am proud to say. you grow as a person as you grow in life. thats a great reward if you know how to use it. im currently seeking NO ONE due to the fact that i am pregnant, but again...life throws curve balls. I have nothing bad or rude to say about it all. People make choices. Doesnt make them horrible people. if that makes me an idiot than so be it...people think what they want and judge you regardless, so thats fine. so anyways...if your interested in talking to me i do answer back lol...but keep in mind that although i am single im PREGNANT and thats 1st. So dont be a skeez...or i wont answer. as far as a relationship? someone whos funny, loves kids, likes to have fun but also down time, doesnt get jealous, has a mind of there own, has a life outside of the relationship, and is a hopeless romantic. too much to ask? i think so actually...but then again im pregnant. so maybe thats more what i WILL BE LOOKING FOR...had a relationship while pregnant before. its not a bad thing, but you have to have a strong person. they do exsist, but far and few between. but they are the greatest i have ever met... my donts? here we go and read this well fellas: if you live with your mommy? no. if you dont have a car? look elsewhere. if you dont work? ha..thats a no. if you live with your ex but sleep on the couch? go play a dumb chick, im not her. if you arent lookin to be serious but just hang out? go to hookers.com, not your whore. if ur qualified, ask for an application. lol...I HAVE ABOUT 3 WEEKS TO GO AND THEN IM DONE BEING PREGO! WOOO HOOO! ;-)