First off, i'm a FUBAR newbie..so be gentle!

About me?
I'm an in shape, masculine, versatile, gainfully employed, drug/drama free single gay man living in Tampa.

My friends keep asking me why I’m still single. And for the life of me I can't answer ahahaha. I'm about as easy-going a guy as you're going to meet. I'm NOT a hermit but I’m also not the kind of guy who's so busy that I have no time for friends, fun and enjoying what life has to offer.

I'm a Gemini, so that means I have two distinct parts of my personality. I'm a bit of a dichotomy. I like being a lazy-bones as much as doing home projects. I love to spend time with friends but love my alone time as well. I am EASLY bored and like constant mental stimulation. That can be as simple as playing cards or getting involved in a local gay event or other "community" project.

I LOVE to laugh. I mean it. I'm almost always smiling or laughing. I don't take myself too seriously but I do like to keep myself well-groomed and in shape. I'm NOT a gym-rat (lord I hate the gym) but I find other ways of keeping in shape. I love to cook. I make a mean Mac'n Cheese but I can also whip up a gourmet meal with equal passion. I love wine with dinner but you can't beat pizza and beer too!

As you can probably guess, I love country music. I'm no redneck though. I keep up on current affairs and politics - but put me on a horse or a walk in the country, or on the beach and I’m a happy camper!

Ok, since you're going to ask - I’m versatile! And at the risk of cutting my odds of meeting a guy on here in-half - I really want a lover who's versatile. I'm a VERY sexual person. I'm not obsessed, but I have the libido of a 21 year old.

I'm also a hopeless romantic. I'm the kinda guy who likes to slip a love note into my lover's lunch box or briefcase so that when he finds it during the day he'll know I was thinking of him. I'm the kinda guy who is really comfortable in a room full or people (or at our local gay country bar) - but no matter where I am or who I’m talking too - my man will always know that when our eyes meet I’m telling him that I'M HIS and HE IS MINE!

I love kissing and holding hands, hangin out nekkid and exchanging a slow, soothing massage. I have a very small circle of friends - mostly because I don't do "gay drama." And lord knows, if you get a bunch of gay men together it's only a matter of time before "drama" raises its ugly head.

All in all, I’m a pretty well-balanced person. I've been single now for a year. My last 2 LTR's were 10 and 17 years respectively - so I’m very much a relationship-oriented person.

As far and work/career goes, I have a great job with a great company. I’m in charge of new product and business development for a marketing/lead generation company here in Tampa. It’s the PERFECT job for me because it requires a lot of creativity and conceptual development. I get bored easily so this is really the ideal job for me. Much of my time is taken up in creative business writing. I was blessed not only with the gift of gab, but I’m a pretty damn good writer – as you can see in this profile, I’m not afraid to put things in writing! I’m totally “out” at work and I’m fortunate that my being gay isn’t an issue.

So, that's a bit about me.