Right now I am just exploring options. I am not here shopping for a husband or a boyfriend. I'm not sure what I'm looking for but I think I'll know when I find it. I am not looking for a one night stands or "friends with benefits". I am not looking for someone from a foreign country who needs a ticket "across the water". I really don't have time for games and I'm not intrested in anyone who isn't honest and respectful.Though I can be judgemental if I get the wrong impression of someone.I want to like everyone so I always try! I can be very demanding and outspoken, but I try to be considerate at the same time. Sometimes life sends things your way that are so hard to get through you can't help but take a step back and regroup.You are not defined by your moments of weakness....instead you are admired by your courage to be weak......The world in general,especially other people fasinate me! I love people who are open minded, accepting, different,self confident and who still have imagination! I hate unnecessary drama (tho a certain degree is necessary mmmmkay!) hangers, fakers, wannabes,stubborn ignorance, liars and anything ot anybody who is self centered or played out!.... First of all, you should know that regardless of who you are or what role you may take in my life, respect and trust are a top priority. Over the years, I have come to realize that who we surround ourselves with speaks volumes of our expectations out of life. I have been through good times as well as bad time, and life is too short to not want to make the most of it. I have loved, I have had a broken heart. And I have broken a few hearts. And I am not at all proud of that. I have lifelong friends that I would not trade for the world. Yet the older I get, obviously priorities change. I'm at a point in my life that I make time for what is important to me and my future which is my children. I reflect on where I "am supposed to be" and where I really am at this point in my life, it's not at all what I expected. But I wouldn't change any of my life experiences for the world ,we always learn from out mistakes . I wake in the morning (I am not a morning person what-so-ever) and I always try to put a smile on my face (not literally, but...) I feel that you should never compromise yourself or your beliefs to make someone else happy! I know that true friends may not always agree with decisions that you make but they will always be there to pick you up when you fall. They finish your sentences, laugh at your jokes and cry when you cry. For every person who does not like you, there are probably ten that do. And friends are truly what makes a person rich...not money! I know that no pair of jeans ever fit two people the same way. Spandex should be outlawed! and flip flops are the best shoes ever invented for people who hate wearing shoes at all. I've learned that 8 shots of Jager in one night might be too many. slip and slides are not big chested girl friendly nor are plastic swimming pools drunk person friendly. Sand in your butt crack or any other crack for that matter is very uncomfortable. But skinny dipping gives you one of the greatest senses of freedom ever. I feel that harboring anger against someone only ends up hurting you because the person you are angry at probably doesn't really care anyway. I think that life is like a baseball game in the sense that 3 strikes and you are out. I know that I personally should not date boys who's names start with the letter "T" (please refer to 3 strike rule). And if someone is really interested in you they will call when they say they are going to. I think I really do sing better in the shower.I believe in trying most things more than once because as you get older your views and opinions change greatly. I didn't know everything when i was 15 and I still don't know everything now... these are just a few things that i think i might know. I am working on my next 30 years so stay tuned as they are all subject to change