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Dating Advice 101
Froma Dude by Help 'n' you
Hey-
We guys are cowards....you should do anything that you possibly can to go out with that guy you have your eye on that you think hasnt noticed you. He has. He is just trying to see how you feel about him.
Second, some of us guys need you to tell us when it is ok to touch you! WE cant read minds...were slower than that. Trust me, we are. WE like to play with your hair, to hold your hand, to put our arms around you, etc....but we need the "all clear"...or we wont.
Lastly, some times us guys like to simply sit and talk and cuddle. Its not us begging for ***! We just like your warmth and happiness and it makes us feel like weve got something special.
Chivalry by J. Chris Sometimes it is important to drop the Superwoman theme, and just let a guy do things for you.... If he's willing to grab the check, let him! If he holds the door open for you, be flattered.... There aren't too many guy left like that... Guys that will fight for your honor, and die for you.... I'm not knocking woman's lib, but sometimes a guy should be able to do something special, without getting a lecture on equality....
A few tips by Jason So I thought about some things when dating and I thought about some things I haven't seen a lot lately.
1) Affection towards the guy - I've been on a few dates where the girl doesn't show how she feels. In no way, shape or form does the girl ever get close. Sometimes it's cool for the girl to make the move, it shows she's really into the guy. It makes a guy feel good. If you're shy working on being open with that guy.
2) Second Chances - You know this is a big one for me. HUGE. A lot of girls I know NEVER give second chances no matter how small the problem may be. You know if something is up tell him. TELL HIM. If it's small and he wants to keep you he will try to better himself, that's what makes dating work. I mean I'm not saying try to change him but allow him to better himself. Sometimes people make mistakes, get over it. Example - If he comes on to strong, yeah it can be weird but tell him to lay off just a bit. You know he obviously likes you just give him a chance to prove himself. But it is cool to draw the line after like after the third chance, I'm not saying to give him unlimited chances just allow him to prove himself a second time.
3) Treat Him - You want a guy to think you're really incredible treat him to something. Surprise him by like coming to his work and bringing him some food. Ask HIM out on a date. Get him something small that you know he likes. Switch the roles around for a day. You don't have to spend a lot of money by any means just do something that he'd normally do for you but for him. He'll be that more willing to do stuff for you if you sometimes treat him.
To tell you girls the truth sometimes guys want to be treated special. Maybe it sounds weird but it shows you really care for him and he'll be that much more willing to do things for you. Second Chances, Gifts, and showing affection helps a lot and shows he means something to you. Be cool about sometimes taking the wheel. IT'S RELIEVING BEYOND BELIEF for some guys. Hopefully this helped a little. Catch Ya Later.
Dont Be Passive by Airickah K... i know i am a female and your probably wondering why a girl would give you advice about guys? well i have grown up with guys i never really have any friends that are female so you can tak this for what you will. Guys hate it when girls are evasive about stuff! get to the point about things... if you feel a certain way say it when you feel it. if you dont like him hanging out with his ex dont have other people watch him let him know... but be considerate of the time and place in person is better than over the phone. sometimes it's hard but look them in the eyes! Dont let a guy tell you your too emotional once you tell em your feelings, you cant help the way you feel, and you certainly can't change it either. but before you say anything about feelings be sure it's relavent and be sure thats the way you feel. dont bring up stuff he did 2 weeks ago either. live in the present and be assertive. this advice isn't going to work for everyone, i do see many females being very male dependent! realistically do you need a guy in your life? if you answered yes this advice is deffinatly not going to help you! just keep it real dont lie or play head games, if you have to play "hard to get" with a guy he's not worth your time. the most important thing is
1) know yourself
2) be comfotable with who you are.
if you dont have those things the relationship is doomed to failure!
27 ways to make a girl smile . . . . .
*1 . Tell her she is beautiful, not hott, fine or ***y.
*2 . Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second.
*3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
*4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
*5 . Always tell her you love her at any and all times.
*6 . When she is upset hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
*7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
*8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
*9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
*10 . Write her notes. {she loves them}
*11 . Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend.
*12 . Play with her hair.
*13 . Pick her up, tickle her and play-wrestle with her.
*14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
*15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes.
*16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night just because you missed her.
*17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
*18. Carve your names into a Tree.
*19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.
*20 . Give her piggyback rides.
*21 . Bring her Flowers just because.
*22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
*23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
*24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
*25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
*26 . Kiss her in the rain.
*27 . If your in love with her . . . Tell her.