OK Here goes some honesty. I want to do this so that if I am lucky enough to make a lady friend here we start off right. My name is Lou, I live in East Texas. Chicago is my home. If you told me that I would live in East Texas 10 years ago I would of laughed and said no way!!! I have a 10 year old daughter... I am a single parent. She lives with me. I am sane, I hate head games. Well I love to find the dark corners of my mind in chat but I wont tell you lies and lead you down a path that is a fake.Here is my thoughts(stepping up on the soap box)When I began my relationships It was always my goal to earn my woman's heart, and mind by gaining trust and offering her my heart. Wanting her subservience right off the bat is never good. I enjoy winning her trust. With that she will offer you her soul... for she has no fear.(Stepping down)I own my own home. Paid for. I have a job and all my hair and teeth. I am looking for honesty compassion. I am a romantic. So my heart misses the flame it had at one time. I am a widower. My wife died of cancer. Soooo now that I am reading this.... I wonder what will happen…Lou