I am Jessica, a size 5/6, curvy (no that isn't a nice way to say "fat!"), Latina/Irish (makes for a saucy me!), long thick hair, big eyes, people tend to compliment my smile, and I dress trendy, but not over the top. I know how to dress for appropriately for any occasion, be it a ballgame, festival, going to hang with the family, or to a black-tie event.I can easily sit at home, cook dinner, and cuddle up for a video for an evening, but I also like to have a simple dinner out, catch a movie, do a festival or concert, go dancing, discover new places, take a walk down at the beach, or if you have a bike, enjoy a nice long ride. I'm pretty social, so I'm often off to barbecues, friends places, or out with friends. This doesn't mean I live in the clubs, I'm just always finding one thing or another that looks like fun, & usually is. I am BIG on date night, so if you ONLY want to be a homebody or couch potato, then we more than likely would not be a good match for each other. Date night could mean a nice dinner cooked together, and shared over candle light, just something that is just for the two of us. I make every effort to make my significant other feel attractive, wanted, listened to, supported, understood, and important, and I must insist on having the same in a companion. If someone doesn't have much interest in doing his end on making me happy, or making the relationship work, then there isn't much chance on our being a match. Relationships take work, just like flowers need tending to, so that weeds don't choke them out, or a lack of sun, water, etc.

I love a man that is strong, with good morals, a good communicator, intelligence is a HUGE turn on, someone that has an abundant sense of humor, I appreciate a keen wit, someone adventurous that is into trying new things too, someone who is honest (not brutally so), faithful, and is looking for his Miss Right, not Miss Right Around Every Corner! Okay, physically I prefer someone in shape. If you have a beer belly, sorry but I work hard on not being a fatty, and take care in how I look, so I want the same in a mate. I workout, so should you, and that doesn’t mean just lifting a beer to your mouth. Also, I have rarely found a man older than me that I am attracted to, and have generally dated men younger than myself. I'd say 35 to to 48, but 50 (if you're the rare bird) might work. Not interested in being a cougar, so significantly younger (in your 20's or early 30's) probably won’t work for us either.

You may have surmised by now, that I am quite thorough and forthright in expressing my desires and what I would seek in a mate, so if you think we might possibly be a good match, the please feel free to contact me. One last thing, I am perfectly okay with my not being everyone's cup o' tea, so please if I happen to not interested in you (in return), please be kind, & do not take offense.