Maybe our mistakes are what make our fate. Be who you are and say what you feel because those that matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter.

.. Loving is different then being in love i suppose. We can just forgive, even if we don't forget, and keep moving on, we can choose to get over something or not. To look over your shoulder is ok, so is looking back at the places you've been, the people you've met and the things you've done... but never walk backwards.All we have is the future, and we're making it with every step we take. If you're walking backwards then you aren't moving fore wards, and really that's the only direction there is to go. I don't believe in fairy tales, or wishing on stars, or magic, or a knight on his white horse rescuing me, i don't believe in being saved by someone, i don't believe i need anyone but me, i don't believe in love at first sight or in soul mates per se...i DO however believe in happy endings, and in love and in commitment and communication and in compromise, and i believe in working together and working things out. Love is giving him the power to destroy you, but trusting him not to, and believing in him enough that he won't.Do YOU love someone or do you just think you do ?


Isiah 43:2 When you walk through the fire you will not be burned, the flames will not set you ablaze.


Ok tell you about me... My name is Cindy,i'm 26,I live in Salisbury Md and i have 3 kids and one on the way. I'm a Firefighter (once a firefighter, always a firefighter), i'm a mother, i'm a looking for job i can stand if not like but i want to go back to school. I'm independent, i'm stubborn , i am STRONG and i'm obsessed with my kids. I'm strong willed, and i prefer to call myself charming and unique as opposed to strange. i'm a grown ass woman why do i need the approval of someone else ? I'm eclectic, i'm easily distracted sometimes, i'm a great cook. I work, i play and i like to have the daily adventure that life in general brings. I like to plot things, although i rarely carry through with anything. I'm honest and probably too caring about other people and their problems and what i can do to help them. I'm ... i'm just me.