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| created @ 07/19/2007 10:34 am |
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Okay, so I have a friend who I love very much and believe to be one of the most absolutely exquisite creatures ever to grace our world w/ her existence. She's a beautiful girl w/ an amazing personality, and I am honestly very lucky to have her in my life.
With that said, she is also a bit overweight - she is not unattractive whatsoever, and not even close to "morbidly obese", just a little bit more than I know she'd like to weigh, and I know this bothers her a lot. It probably doesn't help that I'm rake-thin and have never really known what it's like to be on the opposite end of the spectrum (and to all the overweight people, being skinny as hell kinda sucks.. the grass is always greener, I guess). She is a little self-conscious at times, and it always saddens me when she gets like that because she IS such a beautiful girl, y'know?
So I'm not sure what I should do when she is feeling down about it; I usually try to either tell her how wonderful I think she is, or maybe try to come up w/ some easy suggestions that might help. Being a typical "fixer" sort of guy, it's easy for me to fall into the advice-line trap, but I really do not want to offend her. I'm just afraid that any compliments I might give are just going to fall on deaf ears because I'm "supposed" to feel that way.
So, should I "Yay" try to offer helpful advice
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"Nay" just console her and hope the feeling goes away soon? |
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