"So when you are listening to somebody, completely, attentively, then you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it." Thank you Zen Master Itacus I love this and it is so very true..To bad most people do not do this....Wish more did because when people do not listen fully and hear what someone is truly saying not just the words but the feelings that go with them, it is one of the biggest contributors to drama, stupid miscommunication, problems and issues. That causes couples, friends and family to end their relationships with each other, so sad and tragic. People are always in such a hurry anymore and in that they miss so much and get very little done. What happened to simple things like sitting down with loved ones and simply just talking (texting is NOT talking!!!) and enjoying each others company?? Try shutting off the computers the cell phones and anything else that distracts you that's not a living creature and simply enjoy. If you starting having withdrawal symptoms seek help immediately!!!! Not a joke your a addict and slave to it. Cure simple real friends and family that care and enjoy your real company and truly listening to you!!!!!