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KOTTON MOUTH KINGS
Cunnilingus is one of the most difficult sexual acts to perform successfully.
Going down isnt easy. It takes refined skill and energy for the long haul.
Cunnilingus, "Oral," "Eating P*ssy," or whatever you want to call it is one of the greatest activities to grace this planet.
It can also be one of the most elusive practices to successfully perform.
Some women find themselves uncomfortable being the center of her partners attention, or more often women get frustrated with having to put up with unsatisfying results. And often times some men find themselves lost and bewildered, not knowing what to do, where to go or how to do it.
The art of pleasing one another should not be so secretive and evasive. Since there currently are no forums for this highly underrated act, herein lies a path to a more fruitful experience.
Heres how:
A great time to initiate is during a heavy kissing session.
Slowly kiss and lick your way down her torso, making sure to hit all the sensitive areas such as the neck, breasts, belly button and inner thighs.
While undressing, talk dirty to her. Or just simply talk.
Its been said that the mind is the biggest sexual organ. This is key.
Stimulation of the body follows shortly behind stimulation of the mind.
Many assume that techniques, which may have worked successfully with a previous partner, will transfer over easily to the next.
Every woman is different and not just their personalities. The vagina is like a fingerprint no two are the same.
Most of the things you hate about oral sex she probably wont like either, i.e. teeth, licking with out really sucking and whiskers.
You should also be aware of your partners non-verbal reactions and cues.
Start slow. You want to consciously work her toward the explosive climax so that youll leave a deposit in her sexual memory bank. And if done right, she will not forget you.
Assuming youve been granted access, youre at the vagina. Start by kissing and licking it all over but slowly putting more and more emphasis on the clitoris and surrounding hood, the mecca of all female sexual pleasure.
Compared to the penis, which contains roughly 4,000 nerve endings, the clitoris is a pea-sized powerhouse, containing 8,000 tightly-packed-together nerve endings just waiting to be titillated.
Love the clit:
Think of the clit as a mini Tootsie popyou want to suck and lick your way to the tasty goodness in the center (not biting of course).
Cradle the clit and hood in your mouth, cover your teeth with your lips, and gently suck while simultaneously caressing the clit with the tip of your tongue nod your head slightly up and down.
If done correctly your partner should be writhing in anticipation of whats to come.
Try varying your tongue-teasing techniques.
Maybe start out with an up and down motion and transition into a figure eight.
Use both the tip of your tongue and the flat top portion to modify the texture and thus her receiving pleasure.
Or try tracing the letters of the alphabet, her name, a poem or whatever across her genitals and clitoris. It may sound tedious, but seeing how youre going to be there for a while anyhow, it might be best to make productive use of your time.
Be not afraid to ask what exactly she would like you to do. Hopefully shes comfortable enough with you and herself to layout the road map.
If not, just experiment with finding her hotspots. Judging from her responses you should clearly be able to define whats working and whats just not up to par.
There are women who are just not vocal. But other ways to detect if she is enjoying your performance are in sight.
Tightened legs and torso are indications that youre doing something right. If she is wraps her legs around your head and squeezes the life out of you like one of the characters in James Bond movie, you are doing something right.
Pay attention to what shes doing with her hands as well. Are they clenched, touching other parts of her body, or lying limply at her side?
Ideally she should be squirming, breathing heavily and reaching ecstastic volumes.
She literally will not be able to stay still or silent if this is done right.
Also dont focus solely on the clitthough it is the source of 80 percent of all womens orgasms. Mix it up a little and improvisesee what works and what doesnt.
Hands also play a fundamental role in mind-blowing cunnilingus, how much of an aspect depends on you and your partners preferences.
Again start slow. With one finger gently caress the inner labia and slowly insert it into the moistened vagina. Now that its in, gently massage the upper wall of the vagina in a come-hither motion while still catering to the needs of the clitoris.
Also if one finger just isnt doing the job, using multiple fingers simultaneously can have her biting, screaming and seething for more.
Above all else, remain patient and receptive. Go in with the mindset that this is about fulfilling her needs and if thats too much to focus on, you really shouldnt bother.
A little shock
What comes next is really up to what you and your female friend are comfortable with.
The vagina isnt the only sensitive entrance point of the female body. Great care needs to be taken in going this route.
Permission before entering is definitely necessary. You shouldn't have to ask, but scout around and jusdge her reaction. IF SHE HAS NO REACTION, SHE WOULD NOT PREFER IT. If she openly welcomes it, or moans even louder, you have your answer.
Before inserting anything you want to make sure the anus is properly lubricated.
Gently insert a finger (or two) into the vagina and the anus (usually the pinky). Note that with most women, entering the anus is not needed, sometimes just the presence of a finger on the outside will do her in.
You are now performing what is called the shocker. Using this technique while performing cunnilingus will greatly increase the stimulation your partner feels.
If all is done right what should come next will be Earth shattering for the both of you.
No matter what happens, try to maintain your rhythm until she makes it clear that it isnt necessary. Keep your tongue flitting until she makes you stop.
Make sure she really wants you to stop, if she is laughing, you have simply over stimulated her. If she is still squirming, writihing, then she may just be on the verge of something bigger. Use your best judgement here.
Some women may stop you after five seconds from the start of their climax, while others may be able to roll right into another orgasm if you continue.
Come up for air, give your tongue a break, but keep in mind her excitement does not drop off as sharply as yours does.
And like a shampoo, repeat as needed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!