well lets see i'm still totally confused by men some are toal sweethearts and some are just plain assholes but seems like the swethearts are outnumbering the assholes right now.The ex is out of his mind in thinking i can just let go of certain discrepencies. I have been through way too much in my life to let what has occured go just at a split secnd. i think i had the right idea before i met him to just concentrate on me and my kids.