| So, like most online sites, there is a plethora of 'bi' women on here. I fully support that, it is great to have that freedom. I have also dated a few 'bi' women in the past. The 'trendy' ones were one thing, they did it to simply add spice to a 'straight' realtionship, with no real interest in women - basically using another women as a sex-toy - yeah, that is it's own controversy on how people regard that. I find it not worth even worrying about. This mum is more about the 'true' bi women, which I have also dated in the past. I let them completely explore, and be themselves in those situations, and it was fine - the occasional added fun - but they always wanted to have the 'one on one' time with women, basically, 'on the side'. They would have me, and have a GF, mostly seperate, occasionally all together. Fine, no worries. But I was always wanting to play 'fair'. They would want me, as well as a girl on the side. Yet, I had to be with 'just' them - the question is, if a girl can have a girl on the side, shouldn't the man also be allowed to have a 'girl on the side', in the open, no lies, just - it is what it is. She wants diversity, shouldn't she also be open the the male having the same freedom and diversity? I am truely curious what people, especially the 'true' bi women, feel about this. (ps, my ideal is the relationship comes first, all things extra should be done together to enhance it, or not at all) |
