Watsup all!!! I'm a 39 year old guy born and raised on the Island of Oahu (Hawaii). Right now I'm at that point in life where I just prefer everything to be plain real. I've lived through enough of the games that lots of people like to play and that's just not me. All i really want out of life at this very moment is reality. I want to be real with someone who only knows how to be real with me. If that's too much to ask.......well too bad. Tricks are for kids and well I've got four of them into that but me....not a chance. I have my own catering business and love to have fun for myself as well. Being from Hawaii, I love the water. When I can get away, I love to surf, body board, and body surf. When I can't, I love to Ski, wakeboard or kneebord. During the winter, of course, it's skiing the slopes. My kids love the same although my ex didn't and maybe that's why she's my ex. Who knows. I love the outdoors. I love taking my boat out on the lake and ripping it on a quiet calm morning. I love taking cruises and I love good wine. I love sunsets and walking down the beach on a secluded island with someone special. That's right, I said secluded. I'm into checking out new spots to vacation. The ones without a lot of the touristy stuff. The Carribean is great. I'm into health and working out and love cooking. I'm a pretty simple guy, divorced now with four kids that I love to spoil when I see them. They are my life, my joy, and my reason for being at this point but that's not to say that there isn't room for another. I'd love to have someone to share my joys with but without all of the crap that can sometimes be attached. I don't mean commitment because that isn't crap. I only know how to be three things right now. A father to my kids, a lover, soulmate and friend to someone who wants the same, and a provider of a life worth enjoying. Might sound complicating but it's really not. It's just me.....That's enough for now but if you want to know more, feel free to ask. I love to chat.