Am just a hard working 44 yr old father and now grandfather. Am not really looking for anything or anyone. Should someone come into my life though as that special 'ONE' I would not turn it away. Even when not looking everyone is still looking if they dont have that 'ONE'.

My children are everything to me. I have sole custody of my daughter and now shared/joint/legal custody of my son. It has been a long fight with his mother but finally I believe she came to realize what was truly best for him.

I grew up between NC, Fla, and Alaska. I graduated Class of 83 in Anchorage Alaska. Where I was a letterman in Drama, JROTC. Those were the days!!!

Since then I have worked as a medic in the Army, bartender, bouncer, and for the last 18 yrs as a Electrician.

Last August my son's mother and I called it quits and went our separate ways. So as far as looking for something or someone in my life right now.

I have been told that I have a big heart and when I love I love with all I am. For me to say those 3 words I have to be willing to make a long term commitment to that woman. I do not take loving someone lightly. I am devoted to my children first and family second. The woman I am with is my family and should accept that the children whether mine or hers or ours come before anything and everything else.

if want to talk elsewhere can talk on yahoo or myspace..look me up

who_knows_anymore@yahoo.com is for both.