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| | Should I let him |
| created @ 03/11/2008 06:33 am |
| mum expired. [FRIENDS] |
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I was originally heading to Texas to meet someone and possibly plan a future, but due to my Father recently taking ill I am driving to Florida with my children. My Mother wants my Dad to see them in case he passes so at her suggestion I am leaving them in Florida with her while I travel to Texas. My relationship with my parents is strained at best so the fact that I am not staying is not a surprise to anyone. My Father and I have made our peace and he is where I get my 'No Regrets' attitude, and I know he loves me and he knows I love him. Also my Aunt and oldest Daughter will be there to help her with the kid and my Father.
My problem is..now my soon to be ex husband (papers are filed in 1 week and divorce will be final in 6 weeks) now wants to go with me. While we were married he was controlling and abusive, and the last two years of seperation he has tried to remain in control. Every time things didn't go his way he would run to my parents or my brother and share my personal business with a few twists and embellishments, and I think this is one of the reasons my relationship with my family has remained strained. He says he wants to go to help watch the kids, spend time with the kids, and get a vacation. My feeling is he just wants to remail in my and my familys business.
Also my 17 year old daughter is unable to go and he was supposed to check on her while I was gone. Now if he goes I have to find someone to do this or trust her to be mature enough to handle this herself.
My question to you, after explaining all of this is.... do I let him go?? |
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