To the ladies of FuBar and everywhere else.
Men will fail in so many ways. It is not your fault. It is not that men do not know or understand. It is that the man of your dreams is your first love and you did not know it. There s no way to measure up to that.
Where men fail is that they fail to listen. Men fail to listen to those things which women share and tell. It is not that they want filled with passion, but of a love that will not go away. Note that I did not say fade. It is that love of a mother and child or father and child. It is always there and yet not always expressed correctly.
Men, learn to do one thing great. It's not to build a house, or to be a good salesman, doctor, lawyer, mechanic, cook or anything else. Learn one skill and refine that skill above all others. That skill is to listen. Not with your ears, but with your whole person. When you are with "that one" you need to listen with your whole person.
One thing for the ladies... We really want to know you, please you, and love you. We are stupid for the most part, but we are trainable. Most of us. Please be patient. With a world of techknology and instant gratification we need to unplug and half needs to listen and the other needs to be patient.
Peace